How to get what you desire!

Do you keep having near success syndrome, you dream, hope and plan how happy you'll be at the end of an endeavor. And everytime something just comes along and destroys that picture in your head from ever surfacing into reality, causing you immense internal sadness & emptiness.
Herein lies a solution i'v designed over the years to always help me get things i desire or still stay happy>
TAKE CHARGE! YOUR LIFE
NEVER SIT AROUND & WAIT FOR THINGS TO HAPPEN TO YOU OR SOMEONE TO NOTICE YOU & GIVE YOU APPROVAL. NO!
GET MAD!
GET ANGRY!
TELL YOURSELF 'I'M AS MAD AS HELL& I'M NOT GONNA TAKE THIS ANYMORE!
always BE PREPARED
BE REALISTIC
DREAM LESS
EXPECT NOTHING
WORD HARD, not just hard , put your blood to it
PLEASE NOBODY
DONT GIVE A DAMN
STAY COLD
LIVE FOR THE MOMENT!
SCREW THE FUTURE
CHANGE EVERYTHING, EVERYTIME.
KEEP PUSHING FORWARD AGAINST YOUR FEARS& DOUBTS.
& mostly importantly inorder to still stay happy even after a supposed downfall..learn to DETACH YOUR EMOTIONS & ONLY LISTEN TO ONLY WHAT YOU'LL LIKE TO HEAR. just because something needs to be said doesn't mean it has to be heard.

you never get what you ask for or expected? try not expecting when you ask.

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    Asking begets expectancy, when you ask for something specific from someone you keep looking up at every corner expecting excitedly for that, I mean every corner`, turn, mail, news. Every time every day. Time brings in frustration you get sad and mad at both yourself and the person you asked. History shows us that nothing really happens like a movie script life plays it own with its own fingers. So often than never we are bothered and depressed in expectancy of what never really get to happen 80% of the time. I have been an immense victim.

•          Recently I didn’t ask for anything well partly cos I was ashamed but amazingly that became my happy week. I was really happy for once in a long while I saw the tunnel light , felt some dreams staring at me from a distance. It was amazing . still hoping to meet up with them someday. I didn’t expect not that I gave up but I was just blank on worries. I want to learn how not to expect its sounds insane and impossible not to expect after putting hopes on something but if that is all it takes its worth it.